Bad Sex: Truth, Pleasure, and an Unfinished Revolution

Bad Sex: Truth, Pleasure, and an Unfinished Revolution

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  • Create Date:2022-08-10 03:19:38
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
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  • Author:Nona Willis Aronowitz
  • ISBN:0593182766
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Summary

From Teen Vogue sex and love columnist Nona Willis Aronowitz, a blend of memoir, social history, and cultural criticism that explores the new problem that has no name when it comes to female desire, seeking answers from the author's life and family history as well as from revolutionaries of the past。

The daughter of Ellen Willis (of Second Wave Feminist fame), Nona grew up not only believing the feminist revolution was thriving, but that she was a result: She was sexually liberated, wrote her college thesis on 1970s porn, and had genuinely good sex from the time she was a teen。 But then at twenty-four, she entered into an ironic and unplanned marriage that become a surprisingly seductive trap into conventional life。 But eight years later that partnership was starting to show signs of wear and eventually culminated in divorce。 It was in that moment of personal sea change and political tumult that Nona turned to her late mother's writing (and other revolutionaries of the past) for guidance, all while navigating the modern dating world。 In a time when sex has never been more accepted and feminism has never been more mainstream, what does it mean to be sexually liberated?

For readers of Rebecca Traister and Rebecca Solnit, Bad Sex is a brave, bold, and vulnerable exploration of the enduring barriers of sexual freedom, which lays bare the triumphs and flaws of contemporary feminism and also helps shine a light on universal questions of desire。

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Reviews

Aerial East

I loved reading this engaging, informative, and very relatable book。 It's so great and I think everyone should read it。 I loved reading this engaging, informative, and very relatable book。 It's so great and I think everyone should read it。 。。。more

Lucille

Thoroughly enjoying the journey of reading through this deeply personal and well researched chronicle about the vulnerable questions and ideas around sex and our desires that we must all wrestle with。 The writing is witty, punchy and gets to the heart of the matter most satisfyingly!

Tracy Clark-Flory

A smart, intimate, and deeply researched exploration of desire and politics。 "Bad Sex" beautifully balances the personal and the political, the individual and the collective。 The personal journey made for a page-turning first read, and now I find myself returning to it, again and again, for reference。 A smart, intimate, and deeply researched exploration of desire and politics。 "Bad Sex" beautifully balances the personal and the political, the individual and the collective。 The personal journey made for a page-turning first read, and now I find myself returning to it, again and again, for reference。 。。。more

Lauren Hakimi

This book was so disorganized and all-over-the-place that I'm not fully sure what I was supposed to gain from reading it。 From what I could understand, the thread tying it together was supposed to be the author ending her marriage over "bad sex," but as the book went on, the marriage was mentioned less and less frequently。 The author seemed to contradict herself when she said at one point that "bad sex" amounted to a simple lack of "spark" and at another point that it was actually a symptom of a This book was so disorganized and all-over-the-place that I'm not fully sure what I was supposed to gain from reading it。 From what I could understand, the thread tying it together was supposed to be the author ending her marriage over "bad sex," but as the book went on, the marriage was mentioned less and less frequently。 The author seemed to contradict herself when she said at one point that "bad sex" amounted to a simple lack of "spark" and at another point that it was actually a symptom of a larger problem in her relationship。 The discussion of the author's parents also seemed irrelevant to whatever point the author might have been trying to make。 For example, the author had an abortion, and after her mom died she found out that she did, too -- OK, so what? While I learned some fun facts about feminist history, and the author quoted other writers as making some interesting points, I also wasted my time reading what seemed like pointless passages about various things the author does and does not find sexy。 Yes, the personal is political, but it's the writer's job to show why。 Saying that it's bad for conversations about sex or abortion to be taboo isn't an insightful enough point to justify this book's existence。 The book also wasn't written in a compelling way。 Of course, heterosexual sex for feminists really is something worth thinking about; I suggest that readers interested in these subjects check out books by Katherine Angel, Amia Srinivasan, and Peggy Orenstein。Thanks to Plume for a galley。 。。。more